I try my damnedest to fix the parts of myself I hate. I've had low self esteem for all of my teenage and adult life until the last few years. I've always been out of shape and overweight. I finally started working out and dieting to get in shape. I started working on changing my behaviors that I didn't like. When I see some trait in other people that pisses me off I try not to ever let myself do it. I still do things that I dislike and I'm still not as fit as I should be but the fact that I'm trying and not just hating myself and doing nothing about it changed my entire outlook.