I wanted to share a few thoughts on a comment I saw earlier about drama occurring on a leftist site outside of Lemmygrad.

man why are leftist spaces online like this? feels like they’re too busy shooting themselves on the foot constantly to get their shit together while fascism and reich-wingers are taking over everything.

First, every human space is bound to conflict and contradictions, this is expected. But the characterization of that existing only on leftist spaces is misleading.

If you subject yourself to torture and visit extreme right-wing communities, you'll notice they are extremely toxic and very violent to each other, and usually there is a big turnover of users. The violent and abusive language is part of their socialization, and those who endure the longest become normalized to this type of language, so much so, it transpires outside the right-wing communities themselves.

The idea that right-wingers are in unity I think is also incorrect, what happens is that the right-wing worldview is being more and more normalized by "social" media, "Christian" churches, and even formal education. So, the right-wingers appear in unity because they parrot the same talking points and ideas, but it's just a reflection of bourgeois ideology among the people.

What is particular to leftist spaces is the struggle for a coherent political philosophy. Since right-wing thinking is the "standard" thinking in a bourgeois dictatorship, a right-wing space wouldn't bring anything new, just a reaction against leftist discourse, worldview and philosophy.

Besides, leftists are much more sensitive towards the reproduction of social issues, like male chauvinism, racism, transphobia, and since these are the building blocks of Western political thinking, it's expected that even leftists will eventually present those views, but they are more keen to be criticized and to generate a bigger polemic.

When a right-wing leadership presents a racist view, most of their supporters will simply be silent about it to "protect" the image of their leader. Some of them openly agree to the racist views, but understand this is not to be exposed. One example is the Trumpremoved and sexual assault cases, his trips to the pedophile island of Epstein, this is all overlooked, even if the right-wingers are most vocal about "the children" and pedophiles.

When it happens that a leftist leader presents a troubling view, they tend to be criticized to the bone (depending on how "radical" is that leftist). A leftist or communist leader has to be sinless and incapable of mistakes in the eyes of leftists, otherwise they are not a good representative. Left-wingers tend to be more critical of certain expressions of authority, whereas sometimes this in excess can be destructive.

Leftists have to constantly fight against bourgeois ideology in all fronts, our work is much more extensive and difficult, while right-wing communities simply allow bourgeois ideology to flow to its maximum extent. They have to fight the influence of those who care about facts and reason, but it's not as tiring as having to fight against bourgeois ideology, which is hegemonic.

  • lorty@lemmygrad.ml
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    19 days ago

    I'm sure you know this, but the only reason we get the impression that right-wingers are somehow more united is because we don't usually torture ourselves by going to these places often enough to be privy to the drama. /r/the_donald had multiple controversies and splits over the years, as an example.

  • ButtBidet [he/him]
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    19 days ago

    We aren't listening to material power, we have ideals about democracy and fairness, and we value discussion and conflict. Honestly I think that all of those are good and admirable things. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who didn't genuinely want those.

    I should point out that the closer you get to someone, the more you're gonna argue with them. It's just the rule of being social in the world. I go to work and my boss gets 1% of my personality. You guys, my partner, my IRL comrades, and my close mates get nearly 100%. Ya I'm not willing to call my boss a fascist to his face, but I wouldn't spend an uncompensated moment of time with him. With people I love, I do occasionally call them out on shit because I want them to grow, and I expect the same from them.

  • Camarada Forte@lemmygrad.ml
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    19 days ago

    Left-wingers tend to be more critical of certain expressions of authority, whereas sometimes this in excess can be destructive.

    Side note on this.

    Many leaders and progressive thinkers were awful in their personal lives, especially with relatives or spouses, like comrade Stalin, Martin Luther King, Albert Einstein, etc. This is because humans make grave mistakes all the time, irrespective of how correct they are. Except Lenin, perhaps, he was both an impeccable human being and very often correct. Look at your own lives, have you not hurt someone? Were you never selfish, arrogant, insensible? People make those mistakes all the time, to a greater or lesser extent. Why should our leaderships be different? Should we disregard historical figures in the past because of their personal mistakes? Should we disregard current leaderships for that?

    I think this is a case by case thing, but sometimes we simply cannot afford to be too much critical. Think of an actual communist, politically isolated, representing a small city in the bourgeois state, or something. If the opposition found out bad stuff about that guy's past, of course the bourgeois media would create a campaign to hunt them down. In such cases should we join the hunt? This is the challenge of having the correct historical understanding of your time and place, so these choices become clearer. Over the time you start acting based on the political outcome, instead of an abstract moral value which you do not adopt yourself in your life. Then you criticize any mistake in private if possible, outside the eyes of the opposition.

    • amemorablename@lemmygrad.ml
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      19 days ago

      I think this is a case by case thing, but sometimes we simply cannot afford to be too much critical. Think of an actual communist, politically isolated, representing a small city in the bourgeois state, or something. If the opposition found out bad stuff about that guy’s past, of course the bourgeois media would create a campaign to hunt them down. In such cases should we join the hunt? This is the challenge of having the correct historical understanding of your time and place, so these choices become clearer. Over the time you start acting based on the political outcome, instead of an abstract moral value which you do not adopt yourself in your life. Then you criticize any mistake in private if possible, outside the eyes of the opposition.

      Something that comes to mind here is the importance of applying this thinking to non-leaders, not just figures who have a significant reputation. That part of opposing the current system means recognizing the humanity of each person; they are never "just a number" but a whole human being with a history to them. And when the time does come that we must act against such a person, it needs to be done, as you put it, "based on the political outcome." Better known figures tend to get more of the attention in discussions like this, but I think the "abstract moral value" thinking can definitely come for the "little individual" as well—and they tend to have little power to oppose it, which increases any sense of a "leftist" leader acting more like the existing system than something different.

      To try to put it in example form, not allowing obvious liberals to run rampant in lemmygrad is easily recognized as a political outcome focus; by keeping them from doing so, it becomes a more pointed and focused anti-imperialist and communist space. On the other hand, if lemmygrad were to wage a campaign against "still lingering liberalism in its communist users", that could very quickly get into abstractions and grandstanding that are difficult to concretize into something to act upon. Which brings me to a point of existing system vs. otherwise, that such an approach would likely get lost in individualist thinking. "It's not our failure that this person is still too liberal, it's their moral failing and so they must be cast out." In other words, is what "we" want being cultivated/encouraged/rewarded or only watched for violations of from a tower. (To be clear, I'm not saying this as a vagueposting reference to something that happened on lemmygrad. Just using the site as a basis for example to try to be more clear in what I mean.)

      The tough moralistic thinking mindset might have us thinking that the harder it is to be moral and still be it, the better the person is or some such thing. When in practicality, we get the best outcomes when it is as easy as possible for people to be aligned and act ethically, and when it is made systemically difficult for them to do otherwise. And that is an area where working amid the existing larger system presents a challenge, since people are constantly being pushed at from the pressures of a system that often normalizes or even rewards selfish or predatory behavior of one kind or another. Hope that makes sense.

  • StinkySocialist@lemmy.ml
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    19 days ago

    This as a half a joke

    But also I think it just comes down to the how the two groups respond to hierarchy. On a very simplified level leftists see the current hierarchy as negative and are looking to overturn it. Whether peacefully or through force we seek to create a better more just hierarchy. On the other hand conservatives not only like the current hierarchy but are willing to submit to their place in it.

    So when a conservative leader says something a conservative doesn't agree with they keep their head and voice down. Whereas when a leftist leader says something leftists don't like they are far more willing to rebel against that potential system too.

    My thoughts at least. 🤷

    • sevenapples@lemmygrad.ml
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      19 days ago

      Are they stealing tactics from looney tunes?

      Anyone can break up a showing of an enemy propaganda tllm by putting two or three dozen large moths in a paper bag. Take the bag to the movies with you, put it on the floor in an empty section of the theater as you go in and leave it open. The moths will fly out and climb into the projector beam, so that the film will be obscured by fluttering shadows.

      • DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml
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        19 days ago

        "To disrupt enemy road traffic, paint a tunnel in the side of a wall and they will drive their trucks right into it."

      • cayde6ml@lemmygrad.ml
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        19 days ago

        https://www.them.us/story/youth-activists-live-crickets-disrupt-anti-trans-conference-london-j-k-rowling-lgb-alliance-trans-kids-deserve-better

  • RedClouds@lemmygrad.ml
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    19 days ago

    Thank you, comrade, for your thoughts and insights into this. I am someone who did think that left spaces are infighting too much and right spaces are unified. As I'm sure is common.

    But between your post and a couple of comments, I think that is something I should reconsider.

    The public shaming of politicians does seem to be different, however. And that does put out an aura of unity. But of course, looks are deceiving. And I can't stand hanging out in right-wing spaces, so I've never witnessed the internal turmoil myself.

  • electric_nan@lemmy.ml
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    18 days ago

    One thing that everyone can do to help right now is to stop talking shit about anarchists/communists. There is puh-lenty of space (speaking of the US here) for orgs belonging to either of these tendencies. Don't like a particular org? Don't join it! Save your criticism for more productive uses and deserving targets. May we all be so lucky as to live to see a time when the other is the most pressing enemy.

    In the meantime, please please try to support each other in good will and comradeship. If you see an org calling for support, offer it respectfully. Don't try to coopt it or recruit. Just do the work. Then when you want support for a project, reach out again. Be patient, and don't be drawn into petty arguments-- withdraw your offer/request politely, and try again later.

  • Clippy [comrade/them, he/him]
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    18 days ago

    i think dessalines made an audiobookabout this?

    if you want to read about it, you nerd.

    but something about how christianity really subtly influences us, i guess that it doesn't really have an influence in right wing structures explicitly because the cultural hegemon is all submissive under the big man like a preacher or something who uses social punishment into silence.

    i haven't read the stuff linked yet, but i would gamble because you come into left leaning spaces without building rapport(spending irl time with them face to face), it is easy to drop people and argue pointlessly with them

  • jjjalljs@ttrpg.network
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    18 days ago

    I believed it was because right wing groups are more authoritarian, and thus more likely to simply fall in behind the leader. Like all the Republicans that said bad things about trump, but when it came to votes they went along with him. Personal beliefs are less important than group cohesion.

    I believed left wing people are more likely to value things like truth, accuracy, fairness, over group cohesion. Thus when there's a disagreement or problematic leader, the group fractures instead of the majority going along with whoever's perceived to be the leader. Personal values are primary.

    Also I guess the surface area for problems in left wing spaces is bigger. If a right wing guy makes a racist joke, the right wing probably won't care. Nor if they do something sexist, homophobic, transphobic, or whatever. They just have to swim with the current of all that bad stuff conservatives believe/accept. But a left wing person, who is just as steeped in the shitty dominant culture, will be held to a standard if they fuck up. They have to go against the current of the dominant culture. And if they fuck up and some internalized racism bubbles up, that's a whole problem in a way right wing folks don't have. They don't have internalized communism or feminism to grapple with.

    I don't know if this is actually true, though.

    Sorry for the kind of stream of consciousness post, heh. Think I'm mostly following what you're saying

  • ☆ Yσɠƚԋσʂ ☆@lemmygrad.ml
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    18 days ago

    I think a big part of it that right wingers tend to focus more on emotions. They don't try to develop a deep understanding of problems, and what real tangible solutions might look like. They largely unite over perceived issues and general dislike of other people. This makes it easy to create big tent groups where a lot of people hate different things and they see that as complimentary.

    On the other hand, people typically move to the left because they've developed a more nuanced understanding of the world. And since they genuinely want to improve things they become more particular about the details and the shape of the proposed solutions. This results in a lot more debates and friction between leftists since people can become very passionate about the validity of their ideas.

    Incidentally, politics is just one manifestation of this phenomenon. This is a common thing in software development where people will argue over the merits of different approaches to solving problems. Different programming languages, and technology stacks. You see a very similar kind of passion expressed there. And the common thread is that it's experts debating tangible solutions to real problems they have deep understanding of.

  • orcrist@lemm.ee
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    19 days ago

    Always? No, if course not always. But people like you claim it, which is sad.

  • Ahri Boy 🏳️‍⚧️@lemmygrad.ml
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    18 days ago

    Certain subreddits do the same. But we must unite and help everyone stop infighting each other. Infighting only ruins the objectives of communism as a whole.

    Trans commies have a good reputation within the whole communist community, since Cuba and Vietnam are good models of building reputation and tolerance towards LGBTQ people. LESLIE FEINBERG HERSELF IS IMMORTAL! URA!