• Rem [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Kinda crazy how quickly my body image can fluctuate, like one day I think I'm hot shit and my shoulders/belly look great, next day I get out of the shower and see a girl made of dough blocks with zero definition. Idk if it's just a side effect of my diet/exercise change or a mental thing, but I don't like it, please give me the hot reflection all the time thanks.

      • Quimby [any, any]
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        4 years ago

        yes! I used to do this a lot!

        also, our bodies can and do vary WILDLY from hour to hour, let alone day to day. And our perceptions even more so.

      • Rem [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        Honestly maybe I will try that. Keeping a folder on my phone of my own nudes and lewds always feels weird, but if I'm preaching body positivity maybe I should practice it huh?

          • Rem [she/her]
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            4 years ago

            Okay, I'm sold lol

            And hey, pre-made lewd folder in case I get a quarentine squeeze I want to rile up 😈

            • Quimby [any, any]
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              4 years ago

              Also, for whatever it's worth, most of mine weren't lewd. I'd just take selfies when I liked the way my hair looked, or I felt I was rocking an outift, for example. it helped a lot with my self image/body self esteem.

              • Rem [she/her]
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                4 years ago

                Yes, true, I'd definitely do that too. For me I almost never get self conscious about my looks except seeing myself naked/ in underwear so that's where my mind was at.

                • Quimby [any, any]
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                  4 years ago

                  Yeah, totally makes sense. and that's cool too. everything in this thread is good and based. just wanted to chime in to say it's not ONLY lewds that can help sometimes.

                  • Rem [she/her]
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                    4 years ago

                    Appreciate all your input :cat-com:

              • Rem [she/her]
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                4 years ago

                True, good to have an arsenal 😏