was just working on homework while vibing in a discord call with friends. my mom started texting me asking about stuff. I told her that I was getting just a little stress over a relationship, but it was just peeking out, and it wasn’t really on my mind.
she called me and forced me to talk about the anxiety and I kept trying to tell her that I didn’t want to talk about it. she somehow twisted me not knowing what someone thought of me into me being friendzoned, which triggers the ever-living fuck out of my depression (I fucking hate ‘nice guys’ because I was one for a full summer, and I hate myself for what I did during that time). eventually I just told her to stop and we ended the call.
i texted her and told her not to call me about that kind of stuff in the future because I was focused on what I was doing. she texted sorry, and then IMMEDIATELY said that if I was struggling to focus on things I should seek help.
so, the thing is - I WENT TO A THERAPIST FOR THE FIRST TIME LAST MONTH after not having any help from my parents after dealing with depression for the past 4 YEARS. it took me being out of the house long enough to actually recognize my social anxiety that was leading to my depression for my parents to finally recognize that maybe I should see a therapist?
and now, when I have very rarely been actually stressed about something - now that she is just pushing that thing into my mind, stressing my anxiety to the max - NOW is when she thinks I should really seek help. not when I was on the verge of having -some really bad- thoughts back in high school. not when I was crying during family vacations that I was forced to go on when I would’ve preferred my few distractions at home.
it’s now, when I’m not stuck under her control, and when one small thing has a slight chance of being affected - my fucking college grades.
as an arts major.
fuck this