It was only a matter of time, but now it's "oh, you're only having VANILLA sex? That's terrible!" And a list of bullshit you need to buy in order to have "correct" sex, like, apparently the human body isn't good enough, you need to have the right bullshit from the right brands in order to have a correct sexual experience
It gets to a point where I honestly wonder "how many people in BDSM are actually having fun and how many are doing it because they feel insecure about their sex lives"
Edit: or with the "are you a top/bottom, are you a dom/sub," it's like, what the fuck is this questionnaire checklist bullshit, it's not a job interview, so much for sex being exploratory and liberating
Fuck well said. Put into words exactly what was bothering me about that meme.
It was only a matter of time, but now it's "oh, you're only having VANILLA sex? That's terrible!" And a list of bullshit you need to buy in order to have "correct" sex, like, apparently the human body isn't good enough, you need to have the right bullshit from the right brands in order to have a correct sexual experience
It gets to a point where I honestly wonder "how many people in BDSM are actually having fun and how many are doing it because they feel insecure about their sex lives"
Edit: or with the "are you a top/bottom, are you a dom/sub," it's like, what the fuck is this questionnaire checklist bullshit, it's not a job interview, so much for sex being exploratory and liberating
if I had sex I'd probably feel really called out right about now.
:eric-andre:
But seriously you raise a good point.