It's probably multiple factors, but one of the first things that comes up in conversation during a date or dating apps or even just meeting people is: where do you work? And when people hear I work in grocery, it ALWAYS shows on their face. I feel like I need to stay within my 'class' and only find people who work in a similar job. Sucks yall
You might have had some bad experiences but not everyone is like that.
I hope you're right
The most important thing is to believe in your self, be confortable with who you are and pace your safe wisely.
If you have issues with self-confidence it might be wise to sort that out first before dating anyone. Good luck bro.