It's probably multiple factors, but one of the first things that comes up in conversation during a date or dating apps or even just meeting people is: where do you work? And when people hear I work in grocery, it ALWAYS shows on their face. I feel like I need to stay within my 'class' and only find people who work in a similar job. Sucks yall
It sucks that everyone is so shell-shocked and terrified of poverty under capitalism that it becomes a part of how people choose partners, but alas! Just surprise them with all the cool shit you do in the hopes they don't put it together that you definitely work at walmart to support that hahaha
That's basically the strategy haha
good take. Depending on my job, there were times where it was an identity of mine, and times when it wasn't. It's an adjustment to make that switch, and it sounds like making your grocery job a major part of your identity isn't healthy and makes you very self conscious. Acknowledge your job, sure, but learn how to pivot to talking about your other interests.