so ive been a bit on both sides of it. while it sucks to feel so alone as a guy, its worse ime to feel like a dude is gonna try to fucking hunt me down to kill me at 3am after i stop talking to him for being a whackjob

like i got 3000 messages last time i went on. did maybe 8 dates. i cant say anything there was high quality and enjoyable until i started looking for socialists exclusively, pretty quickly found my bf who is awesome.

a synopsis of some messages i got :

• you fucking bitch i know this entire city its small ill find you you cant ignore me!!!

• you are a t***** and youre going to hell for trying to tempt people you demon (after he superliked me ofc)

• lets fuck

• hey

• yo its 3am wanna come over to my place and give me head (i said serious stuff only)

• weird fetishizing stuff about me being trans or czech

• guy asks if i did porn like all czech women do???

• why is 'app' recommending dudes to me

• weird fetish stuff, like a guy seriously offering me a job to be his secretary at work

• actually nice people who would interact with things i said on my profile (re: my bf)

• having an ok convo with people but it just trails off awkwardly because they refuse to interact with stuff on my profile while i interact with stuff on theirs

• hey baby how big is your dick

• lesbian girl asks if i like topping with my dick (no i dont and i mentioned i dont like sex stuff early on in my bio so she just didnt read anything i said)

• dick pics

i got so many transphobes matched to me that some poor customer service lady took pity on me and gave me lifetime premium for free after they reported a guy to the police on my behalf lol

maybe 40 genuinely nice guys out of 3000. went on dates with like 1/4th of em