• MerryChristmas [any]
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    3 years ago

    One time an Indian friend referred to himself as a "white guy" and I was so confused. I thought it was one of those situations where maybe whiteness means different things in different cultures, but then he said he just forgot he was Indian for a second. Whiteness is so fucking dumb.

      • MerryChristmas [any]
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        3 years ago

        Long story short, his parents treated him really poorly compared to his golden boy brother and rejecting their culture was his way of rebelling. On top of that, this was in the early 2000s which was a really unfortunate time to be that particular shade of brown in America. Add in an obsession with escapist media, most of which starred white guys, and you get my buddy. Luckily, he has mostly dealt with the internalized racism after some therapy and talking through these issues.