My wife is going through a massive depressive episode, like the worst depression I've ever seen in anyone. The only time she really feels better is when I'm actively there to comfort her or distract her. But I have my own fun grab bag of mental illness and some days I just can't provide what she needs. I feel so guilty right now because I know she's laying in bed crying and there is no way I can make it better. I feel sick today, my brain is barley functioning, keeping my pointless anger at everything under control is taking all my energy. I know if I could just get my shit together I could make her life better, but I just can't today. Or I probably could force myself to do what needs to be done but I know if I do that I'll crash and burn out enough that I won't be able to do shit for her for days. I don't know how to balance this, I feel like crying because I can't make things better. I know there probably isn't any real advice anyone can give but some solidarity would nice. Sorry for bringing my problems here but I unfortunately have no where else to turn.