Good point about it coming more from the culture at large than from parents specifically. Since we are a "task force" working with neuropsychological disorders regardless of age group, the ages of the kids range from 6-16. Of course the older kids have a much better understanding in general and do not blame her. She is worried about the ones who are (regardless of actual age) operating on the level of a 6-7-year-old, and unfortunately I think she is very right to be worried about that.