I might have grown up somewhat sheltered, but as a cis-het-man, I had no idea so many men was thinking this way, and not feeling ashamed in the slightest of it. It wasn't until I started actively trying to learn about feminism and following feminist content-creators, that I learned about that part of male privilege, the privilege of having someone else constantly lowering the bar for you, so that even the most mundane things seem extraordinairy by comparison.