Other than San Francisco, where can a weirdo or non-model-citizen live in relative safety?

  • Lundi [none/use name]
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    2 years ago

    By nominally gay I basically mean a cis person whose sexuality hasn't had significant consequences on their material conditions. Perhaps nominally wasn't the right word to use.

    • RION [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      "Societally privileged gay people" or something like that would be better. "Nominal" in common usage means "in name only".

      • usa_suxxx
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        19 days ago

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        • RION [she/her]
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          2 years ago

          Using words incorrectly is a good way to learn their proper usage as long as you're not a stubborn ass when corrected. I do it all the time!

          • usa_suxxx
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            19 days ago

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    • Bluegrass_Buddhist [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      In a heteronormative society being anything except cis-straight will affect your material conditions. That includes cis gay people, even the ones who are still closeted and trying to pass as straight. For fuck's sake I know the world is getting more reactionary, but could we not retread half baked discourse from fucking 2002 please?

      • Lundi [none/use name]
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        2 years ago

        I'm gay and I don't think a cis white person whose sexuality is an understated part of their public identity faces the same repression as a trans/black person who has to cross the street every damn day. I'don't mean to say fuck cis gay people and their experiences don't matter.