Porn is not always filmed rape. If me and my girlfriend want to have sex on camera and post it, that's porn, but there is no rape involved. Big porn companies, I can see this argument working, but its just false for amateur porn
Also ignoring the metric tonnes of amateur porn posted where one participant is too intoxicated to consent, a minor (who is far enough into puberty that there's "plausible deniability"), not aware that they are being filmed, some poor callgirl under the authority of a pimp, and a number of other scenarios.
If you and your gf want to be exhibitionists for money and/or fun, good for you, but let's not pretend that amateur porn is categorically not rape.*
*which is not the same as "let's not pretend it's not categorically rape," because examples like yours do disprove that.
Oh I absolutely recognize that lots of "amateur" porn is rape. In fact a lot of cases of trafficked people fall under "amateur" porn. Sorry I wasn't clear there, I was addressing the point he made that 1. Porn is filmed rape, and 2. A couple making money off of porn doesn't make it rape
Porn is not always filmed rape. If me and my girlfriend want to have sex on camera and post it, that's porn, but there is no rape involved. Big porn companies, I can see this argument working, but its just false for amateur porn
Also ignoring the metric tonnes of amateur porn posted where one participant is too intoxicated to consent, a minor (who is far enough into puberty that there's "plausible deniability"), not aware that they are being filmed, some poor callgirl under the authority of a pimp, and a number of other scenarios.
If you and your gf want to be exhibitionists for money and/or fun, good for you, but let's not pretend that amateur porn is categorically not rape.*
*which is not the same as "let's not pretend it's not categorically rape," because examples like yours do disprove that.
Oh I absolutely recognize that lots of "amateur" porn is rape. In fact a lot of cases of trafficked people fall under "amateur" porn. Sorry I wasn't clear there, I was addressing the point he made that 1. Porn is filmed rape, and 2. A couple making money off of porn doesn't make it rape