Fuck off. Seriously. Eat all of my shit.
Come back to me when you're an afab enby or a trans man, and then you can talk about how it feels to be emasculated.
I've been made to feel like a fucking piece of trash for showing any masculinity my entire life, except I never even had a word for it, because for someone born without a dick, emasculation is norm.
You don't know shit about shit.
100%
Also if you've got a dick and you see toys as your competitors then that's the quickest way for you to experience a resounding defeat because you cannot vibrate.
On the other hand, I've never come across someone who was in a committed relationship with a vibrator. I'm sure there's gotta be someone out there who is (and tbh more power to them) but most people aren't dating someone for their RPMs.
If you treat it like a race, you're going to finish early.
If you treat it like a competition, you're going to lose.
If you treat it like a mutual experience then you might just share in some intimacy, pleasure, and maybe even some adventures along the way too.
What's there to lose?
Bruh just drink more coffee