Fuck off. Seriously. Eat all of my shit.
Come back to me when you're an afab enby or a trans man, and then you can talk about how it feels to be emasculated.
I've been made to feel like a fucking piece of trash for showing any masculinity my entire life, except I never even had a word for it, because for someone born without a dick, emasculation is norm.
You don't know shit about shit.
I find it's a stated criterion and like in my experience (i have only been in one relationship, and am still in it 😊) there are like more than enough reasons to reject a guy cuz they are cruddy.