Exactly! It's literally nothing more than a fucking lifestyle choice and they all know it, their patriarch figure knows it, and so do we,,, they just fucking hide it from themselves so they can pretend their spiteful manipulative emotional tendencies are actually meaningful as a guilty coping mechanism. If you successfully explain this to a Vaushite they'll hit a stack overflow of self-repression trying to reflexively deflect it. But that's just a final, desperate way to lie to themselves, like most westerners do in some way