I've really started to hate it when women like what I like. What can I do to change this?

  • Zizeksniffer [none/use name]
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    2 years ago

    I watch it all the time. I haven't had a meaningful relationship with a woman in like 4 years. I don't want to blame porn entirely because It can be a useful tool for a healthy sexuality, but I will say it almost had me viewing woman as sex objects with wanton lust before I caught myself and told myself I was becoming fucked in the head.

    Pretty insightful question honestly. You seem to have hit the nail partway on the head.

    • Commander_Data [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      This world we live in has us all feeling isolated and alone. I'm not saying porn is bad or evil in and of itself, but it can contribute to some unhealthy attitudes towards women. It's probably something you should put away for now, though. Go out and connect with people. Hopefully you can find some folks in your area doing mutual aid. The best thing for you right now is to be part of a community out in the real world.