I was open to posting 1 year+ pics leading up to my surgery, but just posting to r/transgender_surgeries for advice and to talk about things during recovery already got me weird replies, DMs, and people suddenly following me on reddit. unfortunately, no amount of wanting to be helpful will get me to subject myself to that.
yeah im gonna post anonymized pics at some point to somewhere, not sure if itll be reddit or not, so that people can get an idea of what a fully healed one looks like. its pretty well known that chasers and terfs love browsing the surgery subreddits for their new material. but if it has the chance of helping someone im down with chasers looking at my hoo-ha i guess :shrug-outta-hecks:
I would like to find a way to share how things have healed for me, so maybe I'll give it more thought. It's really shitty how much we have to consider just to be helpful
I was open to posting 1 year+ pics leading up to my surgery, but just posting to r/transgender_surgeries for advice and to talk about things during recovery already got me weird replies, DMs, and people suddenly following me on reddit. unfortunately, no amount of wanting to be helpful will get me to subject myself to that.
yeah im gonna post anonymized pics at some point to somewhere, not sure if itll be reddit or not, so that people can get an idea of what a fully healed one looks like. its pretty well known that chasers and terfs love browsing the surgery subreddits for their new material. but if it has the chance of helping someone im down with chasers looking at my hoo-ha i guess :shrug-outta-hecks:
I would like to find a way to share how things have healed for me, so maybe I'll give it more thought. It's really shitty how much we have to consider just to be helpful