I think I stumbled upon a woman who is into me and I'm really into her but I haven't the slightest idea how to express that beyond kinda just saying it like a dumbass. We've hung out a few times and I'm going to reach out to go out with her again but I've got no idea how to express my actual feelings for her

I've never had a girlfriend. Only women I've been with have come onto me hard and I just halfheartedly played along. Last time I was really into a girl was years ago and I fucked it up because I didn't know how to express that. I really don't want to mess this one up though. How do I go about this?

Edit: thanks for the input everyone (silly answers too). Gonna ask her to go somewhere with me this weekend and be a little bit less coy

    • GoebbelsDeezNuts [any]
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      2 years ago

      Unironically this.

      "Hey I like you, would you like to go out sometime?" No need to be slick or coy, if she feels the same way the answer will just be "Yes." and you save both of you the headache.

      • forcequit [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        fuck hints and signals, all my homies love open communication

      • ilyenkov [she/her, they/them]
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        2 years ago

        Exactly. And if her answer is "no," then that's also good. You know what's up and you can move on and start looking for someone who feels the same way about you as you do about them.