The pain of ‘blue balls’ should never be used as a coercive tactic. But almost half of study participants — mostly women and some men — reported pressure to engage sexually.
Yes, although personally it's only ever happened to me after hours and hours of edging, so I've only experienced it maybe a dozen times and not for quite a few years (more of a bored teenager thing). I imagine there's a range in how easy it is for people to experience it, though. And as far as discomfort, yeah, it sucks, but after you reach completion it goes away after...maybe an hour? Half hour? Not a big deal at all.
Yes, although personally it's only ever happened to me after hours and hours of edging, so I've only experienced it maybe a dozen times and not for quite a few years (more of a bored teenager thing). I imagine there's a range in how easy it is for people to experience it, though. And as far as discomfort, yeah, it sucks, but after you reach completion it goes away after...maybe an hour? Half hour? Not a big deal at all.