I was kind of passively monogamous until hooking up with a polyamorous woman on Tinder. I started a relationship with her and even though I made some attempts at dating other people, this mostly just became her having sex with other guys and me being involved with her exclusively. But I found out that I have zero jealousy, like none at all, as long as she had the time and attention for me. I found out a lot about myself that I didn't expect.

So, anyway, I wanted to create a thread about positive experiences with polyamory, due to a thread on the test instance.

  • UnicodeHamSic [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    There is the hand holds the sword. If you partner is having a great time with a new partner that is normal. You will not often be as fun as a new experience. That's fine. It is a moment to be happy. They couldn't enjoy that new partner with safety and comfort without you providing support and structure. The specific name of the new emotion we don't learn in straight society is compursion. For the rest it comes with time. My partner start with the same concern so we started real slow. It eventually worked out.