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Life is hard folks. I just moved to a new city and my partner just got out of long term treatment. They’re moving to the same city as me but we are living separately and probably starting divorce stuff in the Fall. Im letting them stay with me for the next week or so but my friends are really skeptical because of what’s happened between us in the past, which I’m thankful for but all my support being mad at me doesn’t make things easier. I want to believe that my partner has changed for the better but I can’t let go of what they did to me in the past. It’s all so difficult and sticky. Just venting.
Good luck, comrade. Will the two of you remain in contact after the divorce?
It remains to be seen honestly. I wanted to be fully separate and go no contact when they came back but we have so much stuff to sort through because of the move that that wasn’t practical. I originally planned to go fully no contact in August but I want to help them with the move. It’s hard because their family is all gone and I’m all they have. I don’t know how to handle it. Right now I’m just being selfish even though it might be unsafe to keep them around.
That sounds like a complex situation. I hope you're able to figure something out
Thank you comrade. I think the important thing is for me to keep prioritizing my well being and safety because my partner hasn’t in the past.