Oh boy
I guess my irl opinion when it comes to marriage is controversial (I believe it hasn’t really been deconstructed since it’s inception and is problematic for a number of reasons), but I’m curious whether anyone shares the same thoughts. Like finding your forever person? 100% 
Everything else associated with it like the status symbol, doing it just to do it, inconsistent sharing of responsibilities? No good imo
Could be my autistic brain taking over, but I truly cannot comprehend why something like this needs to be in writing to be “official”
Idk I’m opinionated and sometimes my opinions suck and I need someone to bring me back to reality
I appreciate that! I think what sort of prompted this thought was deconstructing my patriarchal upbringing. And I don’t fault my parents for the way they raised me, but I view it as something to learn from if I ever decide to have kids of my own, and I guess marriage crossed my mind in this context