I'm increasingly becoming unironically volcel. Every time I get horny, I simply deny my programming, firmly remind myself of my volcel oath, and do something more productive, haha. I haven't had sex in almost 9 months and lately I genuinely feel better about myself for it. There's no anxiety over sexually disappointing and no hollow feeling when contact inevitably fizzles out afterwards.

I feel like I have so many better things I could be doing than dating or chasing sex and in coming to that conclusion I've also stumbled my way into a sense of motivation and initiative I didn't know I had.

I'm curious if others have experienced something similar and are willing to discuss it. Anyone else unironically embracing their volcel oath? Lmfao

  • AliceBToklas [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    When I finally transitioned and realized I'm transbian I realized that I'd have to do online dating if I wanted to ever meet anyone; online dating involves having pictures of yourself that you don't completely hate. I have not had a picture taken of me since I transitioned that I don't completely hate, thus no dating profile, thus no dating, and at this point I've accepted that I don't really need to date to be sexually fulfilled because I as it turns out what was unfulfilling about sex before was that I wasn't even participating in a way that I wanted and when I'm by myself I can do whatever I actually want and that's actually fairly fulfilling.