a straight guy openly vibing about being pegged is doing more for feminism than any m'lady whos busy being vaguely condescending in the twitter discourse mines, like 100% unironically
honestly i was more saying that online discourse doesn't do shit.
BUT, normalising things like pegging from whitebread cishet guys could get people to look at and reassess the way they think about sex and women's relation to it. Look at the mainstream conception of sex and porn right now, even just in dumb jokes there is this complete acceptance of sexual violence (slapping, choking, derogatory language*) as long as that violence is directed towards a woman. Listen to the way men can talk about sex, the whole undertone (or overtone) of domination and degredation towards the recieving party (which, in most people's minds, is automatically women as a class), even in vanilla situations.
Making it generally okay for straight men to like getting pegged might give them some room to think about sex in a less traditional way, and a starting point alternative to the current public idea, which is that pretty much 'normal' sex is a woman being on the end of a violent dicking down with little regard to her enjoyment.
Not to make something deeper than it is.
*not kink shaming here, these things obviously aren't inherent evils, the issue is that they have become very common in mainstream 'normie' porn, with a lot of women having experienced men just springing shit like that on them with no prior discussion, because to a lot of people, thats just kind of how you treat women during sex. its normal and thereby okay automatically, with no need to look into WHY its been normalised when other kinks haven't, or consider that at least they should ask first.
a straight guy openly vibing about being pegged is doing more for feminism than any m'lady whos busy being vaguely condescending in the twitter discourse mines, like 100% unironically
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honestly i was more saying that online discourse doesn't do shit.
BUT, normalising things like pegging from whitebread cishet guys could get people to look at and reassess the way they think about sex and women's relation to it. Look at the mainstream conception of sex and porn right now, even just in dumb jokes there is this complete acceptance of sexual violence (slapping, choking, derogatory language*) as long as that violence is directed towards a woman. Listen to the way men can talk about sex, the whole undertone (or overtone) of domination and degredation towards the recieving party (which, in most people's minds, is automatically women as a class), even in vanilla situations. Making it generally okay for straight men to like getting pegged might give them some room to think about sex in a less traditional way, and a starting point alternative to the current public idea, which is that pretty much 'normal' sex is a woman being on the end of a violent dicking down with little regard to her enjoyment.
Not to make something deeper than it is.
*not kink shaming here, these things obviously aren't inherent evils, the issue is that they have become very common in mainstream 'normie' porn, with a lot of women having experienced men just springing shit like that on them with no prior discussion, because to a lot of people, thats just kind of how you treat women during sex. its normal and thereby okay automatically, with no need to look into WHY its been normalised when other kinks haven't, or consider that at least they should ask first.
Daddy pls