As someone who was actually abused, it’s amusing seeing people think that struggling to open beans on and off for a couple hours is abuse. Get fucking real
It makes me an expert in realizing when you are full of absolute shit. He clarified that the child never went over 6 hours without food. There’s not even one iota of abuse shown in this stupid ass anecdote
Colloquially, saying that someone is being abusive doesn't mean that you think they committed a crime. There are a lot of levels of abuse that are legal, and there are even more that are illegal but basically impossible to act on.
This incident, for example, is abusive but not illegal- on its own. If this was part of a pattern, then this would be 100% actionable.
Its actually literally factually incorrect lol. There's absolutely no way a court of law would ever put my mom away for the shit she did, because it was subtle narcissistic emotional abuse. No specific incident would be legally actionable.
Your insisting that abuse isn't real unless its legally actionable is incredibly fucking oppressive to abuse victims, particularly emotional abuse victims, and you can fuck right off for that.
As someone who used to work in the child protection system: you have no idea what you're talking about and you should stop acting like you do
As someone who was actually abused, it’s amusing seeing people think that struggling to open beans on and off for a couple hours is abuse. Get fucking real
Being abused doesn't make you an expert in the legal definitions, and that's what you're arguing here
It makes me an expert in realizing when you are full of absolute shit. He clarified that the child never went over 6 hours without food. There’s not even one iota of abuse shown in this stupid ass anecdote
Friend, I'm dunking on you for this "abuse is always illegal" shit, not arguing the specifics of this incident.
My claim was “Accusing someone of child abuse is accusing someone of a legal crime” which is factually correct. You’ve twisted what I said
Colloquially, saying that someone is being abusive doesn't mean that you think they committed a crime. There are a lot of levels of abuse that are legal, and there are even more that are illegal but basically impossible to act on.
This incident, for example, is abusive but not illegal- on its own. If this was part of a pattern, then this would be 100% actionable.
Its actually literally factually incorrect lol. There's absolutely no way a court of law would ever put my mom away for the shit she did, because it was subtle narcissistic emotional abuse. No specific incident would be legally actionable.
Your insisting that abuse isn't real unless its legally actionable is incredibly fucking oppressive to abuse victims, particularly emotional abuse victims, and you can fuck right off for that.