autismdragon [he/him, comrade/them] to neurodiverse • 11 months agoFound the different modes for different waiting times thing incredibly relatable.imagemessage-square19 fedilinkarrow-up1110file-text
arrow-up1110imageFound the different modes for different waiting times thing incredibly relatable.autismdragon [he/him, comrade/them] to neurodiverse • 11 months agomessage-square19 Commentsfedilinkfile-text
Like even within long term waiting there are huge differences with what I do depending on exactly how much time I have.
minus-squareStrayce@lemmy.sdf.orghexbear12·11 months agoI've found more people tend to be chill if you explain it like; "I don't mind, I just need to know. Because I have other things I can do if it's going to be a while." linkfedilink
minus-squareautismdragon [he/him, comrade/them]hexagonhexbear12·11 months agoIve had people even get mad at that but i guess those people were just dicks. link
minus-squareusernamesaredifficul [he/him]hexbear10·11 months agoyeah that's just unreasonable it's a common question people are busy and you might have places to be link
minus-squareinvalidusernamelol [he/him]hexbear3·11 months agoJust asking ETA on everything is normal, especially if it's like a service that you're getting. If someone says "gimme a minute" assume they mean 10 then ask ETA after that. link
I've found more people tend to be chill if you explain it like; "I don't mind, I just need to know. Because I have other things I can do if it's going to be a while."
Ive had people even get mad at that but i guess those people were just dicks.
yeah that's just unreasonable it's a common question people are busy and you might have places to be
Just asking ETA on everything is normal, especially if it's like a service that you're getting.
If someone says "gimme a minute" assume they mean 10 then ask ETA after that.