spent some time with my mother today that was pretty nice, turns out the uncle she's taking care (he's uh, mentally very slow) is even worse off than we thought. Not physically I mean, but he's far more dependent than we thought. Set the timer on the microwave for way too long a few days ago apparently and mom was in her room at the time and only came out when she smelled something. Luckily it didn't catch fire but it was on for like the max time or something. Worrying.