Babs [she/her]

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Cake day: July 10th, 2023

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  • Babs [she/her]toaskchapoAnyone donate plasma for cash?
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    4 months ago

    I did it back in college but it kinda sucks. I had weird bruises all the time, sometimes I'd get turned away for not having juicy enough veins, sometimes it hurt to get jabbed. Not a fun experience but it got me by.

    It also sucks that they're allowed to call it "donating" when these companies primarily sell and export your plasma for profit. It's selling blood to vampires.

















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    Most of the players seem very cool actually. The DM is a good friend, and I'm playing with my partner and 3 of DM's friends. Two of them are people I would love to game with irl - they're creative, fun, roll with the punches and think on their feet really well, write good prose, I love their characters and ability to engage and weave interesting dynamics...

    The third friend is kind of annoying and gets snippy about everything and you need to speak with them in the gentlest possible terms. Apparently this game was made because the other players have a concurrent game where they didn't want to invite this person.

    But that's not really the problem. It's more that after a week of daily posts and playing, we still haven't done anything. We spent two days doing the typical "you meet in a tavern", then we got into a carriage to move to a second location (and the annoying player made a big stink when someone made a post correctly assuming it was a carriage when the DM wasn't explicit about the kind of land-based transportation), spent four more irl days riding the carriage bantering with each other about like, what this story might be about, and now we're at another "get to know each other" feast. Still no real plot hook or decisions to make.

    So I post that I'm going to get out of the carriage to join the feast, but no! The doors of the carriage haven't opened yet so we gotta wait some more, and I get another snippy message from annoying player that I need to stop presuming things without DM saying so.

    So I wait, and then at like 2am last night the DM sends a message saying the carriage opens and we can do stuff again. But like, what to do? Join another feast? Continue waiting for something to react to?

    It sucks cause this game is set in this world the DM and my bf have been working on for years, and even though it's a little silly I want to support their creative ventures. But also, I'm so fucking bored here.

    Probably gonna sit and wait and see if the actual hook is coming soon, or I'ma tell the DM this game isn't for me.

    also DND sucks now

    I'm used to Pathfinder and we're playing 5e instead, without any books other than the basic free one. We started at level 8, and after level 1 I made a grand total of 2 decisions during the next 7 levels of character creation (do I take the single available feat, or do I do stat boosts?). Then we got to have the headache that DND doesn't price its magic items and we had to ask DM permission for every little thing or otherwise have no use for our starting treasure. It is a bad system and I don't like it.