Oh he kisses big asses? I just happen to have a big ass 🤭🥰

Busy week for me. Busy and exhausting getting ready (at work) for school to start next week. Hoping to be able to relax and enjoy the weekend because the next couple of weeks are going to be busy as well.

Yeah I think I would opt for some short term dye if I could.

Yeah.. I think that's slowing down my progress in figuring shit out. There's so much shit that got internalized that I haven't been aware of til now.

An oldie, but...

Geez, I've been thinking of shaving my beard. I'm afraid of what's underneath, but also don't want to prompts the questions of "you've had it for X years, why did you shave?"

But now, I'm wondering if it would make me happy to see it gone!

Yeah, I haven't looked at the rules, but yeah, fuck that.

Yeah, nah, yeah, FUCK TANKIES

I will say, I was looking at my getting too long nails thinking about how to deal with them and then thought "Nah that's too obviously feminine too quick, and I'm not ready for questions or comments" and then I heard "DO IT NERD!!!!" 🤣

So thanks for the laugh at least

What little I remember when I was younger was that there were "transexuals" but it was always portrayed like a crazy sex/fetish thing.

I've seen a few people from there on here and my experiences have been nothing but pleasant.

On the other hand, the communities I've seen there seem almost troll like. Like the dumbest worst right-wing circlejerk except some insane left ideas and they hate on "liberals"? It's so confusing to me.

Definitely some very cool people are from there though, from what I see here. I am conflicted. I don't want the shitshow some of their communities starting over here.

I finally found it! This is the one it's from that site, but it's all I could find.

I get that. I'm really not far from bumfuck nowhere. It's a safer place, but only a little, and outside its definitely red country. I get that nobody pays attention or cares for the most part, or even assumes it's for someone else. I think it's internalized oppress of multiple flavors. I might want to do something, but there's some fighting going inside, if that makes sense.

I don't remember really hearing about trans until maybe within the last 10 years. I sometimes wonder if things would've been different if I had heard about it when I was younger. I still grew up in a very, let's say strict,environment. So, who knows.

That sounds very nice!

I had not really considered the length aspect. I haven't been brave enough for my fingers yet, but have let them grow out and slightly shaped and I do love clicking them on things now. Still feel like I have short fat fingers though. Maybe working out is making them thicker?

I had some pretty thinning hair and had a receding hairline (I guess? At the corners, not all the way across). I started some minoxidil and seriously considering a derma roller.

I really hoping to try this out some day. I like my hair color and am excited (assuming it gets less thin) to see how it looks long.

I'm also somewhat interested in trying to dye it like that cartoon trans girl you see here sometimes with the trans flag colored hair.

I had that when I was earlier in the questioning phase!

I was walking into a place behind another woman, and the lady at the door greeted us and then noticed who i was(she knows me) and said "I almost said 'come in ladies' " and it kind of hit me, less in a funny way, kind of like, "huh, that wouldn't have totally felt wrong"

I actually do have that one. I guess I probably love more garlic than you, but I will concede it's a lot less versatile and either really works or really doesn't.

That is tragic. My deepest condolences.