In any case, in that particular interaction I can see where the other poster was coming from (healthy paranoia), but he also was much more prickly than warranted.
He was banned in retaliation for less than the antagonism he received. He remained mostly civil throughout the entire interaction when she was immediately hostile and maintained that energy the entire time. Two completely different measuring sticks for insiders and outsiders to the clique.
I mean this precise post of yours.
Oh? I get the outside measuring stick? What a shock.
How I can threaten you
"Or you’re hoping to catch a ban?"
We've seen how the mods act now and any 'dEbAtE bRo' behavior (defined as talking back to the insiders or being critical of the mods) is prima facie cause to ban you, and here you're explicitly threatening me with it.
I mean this precise post of yours. I’m not going to look through your post history to point and say you were hypocritical and exhibited this behavior on 24th October, 16:47, that’s silly and not helpful I think.
What do you think the word 'hypocritical' means? Because unless I banned someone for purely petty and personal reasons, I think you're wrong.
I don't have a problem with cass being an asshole. I have a problem with a class of people who are allowed to be assholes to people and a mod team who will ban anyone who looks at them sideways. And I have a problem with having a day of mourning when an asshole decides the drama they were acutely to blame for gives them bad feelings enough to leave the site and that being a reason to escalate the arbitrary and petty crackdowns.
I don't want to rehash that argument as anything other than as an example of how much you can get away with as an insider and how little you can be disciplined for as an outsider. I'm fine with f-bomb screaming matches between people. That's not my issue.
*Oh wow what a shock I was banned for criticizing the clique who could have predicted