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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • First, don't say "you see yourself leaving" in one year. The question is a worthless. Give it an equally bullshit answer like " I hope I am still here in one year".

    Second, even if you say you might not be there in as year, that is not a resignation. Never say that sort of thing in writing unless you are sending in your formal notice of resignation.





  • Too long. I won't make any sort of call from a single person's perspective when different people directly involved have different takes.

    I would reconsider whether my subscribing to this community "sparks joy" or is helpful to my mental health, and then I would probably unsubscribe.

    AITA doesn't need to be recreated lemmy, IMO. That was one of the most toxic subs on reddit that wasn't specifically porn or violence related.



  • Lemmy. I occasionally peek into a reddit sub I used to mod. It was for a hobby that was traditionally male dominated but cracking open more for women. A year before all the API shit went down, women would often get reasonable, responsible answers to their questions about safety. Now, those same questions are met with "get a gun", "if you're scared, you have no business in this hobby so stay home and make your husband a sandwich" type shit. And because myself and the other decent mods peaced out, those sorts of comments stay. Women and not-sexist men started peacing out of the sub. And now it's a mud wallow of small-minded men who are terrified that their manly man hobby can be done by women. It's a great representative of my total experience as a woman on reddit.

    I see some terrible, hateful men on Lemmy but they are far fewer and they almost always get called out by others.