Here's one perspective: https://archive.is/yaFoo
Ask yourself: what would an official diagnosis bring you? And what would self-identification bring you? Are there specific issues?
Going through similar things right now, I feel like I'm probably autistic but I just have zero confidence in choosing that label for myself so I would like some actual confirmation. I have a suspicion I may have subclinical autism or something so that may not help at all.
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