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Cake day: May 22nd, 2023

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  • heartheartbreak [fae/faer]toanimewatch utena
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    1 month ago

    Also his stuff is actually pretty clear, but the point and purpose of the beginnings of the show is to confuse you and force you to come to terms with a situation borderline incomprehensible at first mirroring the nature of coming to understand ideology however unexamined it may be in the beginning.







  • Either is possible but above all else these are 100% indications of trauma. Attention regulation issues, mood regulation issues, self-identity regulation issues, relationship regulation issues, theres a good chance she probably has a lot of strange somatic bodily issues as well. Perfectionism is also another good indication.

    I could be entirely wrong, but i think she may be surprised by how many of these issues are in one sense or another remediated by going to therapy for trauma!



  • Sometimes you have to just shoot straight in a way that doesnt make them feel attacked. For instance, "hey sorry you probably didnt know this but that mug is really important to me, it belonged to my dead mother. Would you mind using another mug?"

    If they are somebody who cant take responsibility sometimes you just have to figure out how to deal w things so they are less stressful on your end. Sorry you have to go through this.

    You got this meow-hug