i feel like that happens either way unfortunately

lol why?

ah you mean medicaid? sorry yes i think they were looking into that

I'm not sure what that is tbh.

lmao right, i refuse to believe if you unironically use reddit you have incel tendencies.

thanks for the insight, i’m trying to learn more about the vernacular with words like ‘favorite person’ but it seems pretty self explanatory

yeah, i hate the stigma on mental illnesses in general, though i’ve never really done my research on BPD until today. but yeah if you say “stay away from these ppl” you’re a shitty person.

i also don’t know if it’s our place as non-BPD to say “you need therapy”, but encouraging it in the right way

aw sounds good thank you 🥺

noooooo

seems like a solid plan - just be aware of myself and the relationship. thank you

i will say that she is aware she has co-dependency issues (as do i to an extent) and have limited seeing each other to 2 times a week.

but you deserve love comrade 🥺.

no but for real, isn’t everyone different? any advice you can give besides ‘don’t’ haha.

edit: i don’t know if this means anything but for us to combat our individual co dependency issues, we limit ourselves to seeing each other two times a week

ok but you’re just self diagnosing and that’s kinda harmful for people with actual BPD no?

yeah so basically that subreddit is super toxic and dehumanizing to people with BPD. but that still doesn’t mean it will be difficult

so i’m dating a girl, and last night she mentioned she had BPD. i didn’t think much of it, i wasn’t familiar with it. i just started doing research and went to reddit (maybe a big mistake) just to see what ‘real life’ people were saying about it. it’s /r/BPDlovedones and it’s basically victims of people who have dated someone with BPD...

it’s currently scaring the shit out of me and kind of making me have a panic attack. there was a post saying “Any advice for someone starting to date a person with BPD?” and literally everyone said “Don’t. they’ll ruin your life. the person they are now is not who they really are. they change themselves to adjust to your personality” and it all the basic patterns align with what i’m experiencing. it’s very scary. i don’t know what to do.

i know reddit is infamous for having these ‘victim’ groups who hate on a certain type of people who ruined their lives, and it feels very dehumanizing. i don’t think it is impossible to date this person and i don’t want to just stop seeing them. i don’t know what to do tbh. just very overwhelmed

i’ve probably asked a million times, but anyone have any tips for reading? like not getting distracted. i have adhd and constantly wander off in my thoughts and give up. i just constantly get back on my phone

do you need a hug

it’s currently in the beginning stages i guess, peep the edit

oh i’m definitely doing that. just with more than one person

i’m dating this person and they’re super cute and we’re romantic with each other (give each other flowers and cute little notes) i’ve literally only seen them 3 times, 2 dates. i got out of long term monogamous relationship in november and told myself i wouldn’t be in another for a while.

here i am on date 2/3 and like falling for this person. i need help dude like damn why can’t i just be a hopeless romantic without catching feelings

edit: ok it gets worse- me and my comrade are self proclaimed friends, but we kiss and i’m also romantic with them. so basically i’m just kissing everyone and tbh it’s pretty cool. i want my cake and to eat it too.

this is a dumb question probably, but say a succdem won, who would call the shots to kick their shit in?

was he not successfully impeached? it doesn’t mean much but it’s honest work (spoiler it’s not)