sunshine [none/use name]

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Cake day: October 30th, 2021

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  • i feel the same way, a lot.

    in conversation, you could always fall back on your media experiences. So SO many people just talk about movies and music, games too.

    also, did you know that when you read interesting things from interesting people, those interesting ideas become part of you? that's how I enjoy thinking of it. so if you read interesting things from interesting and obscure people, especially historical people, then you will have things to talk about (often very shocking things), and also become wise. In many ways, those experiences have become yours. that's what i tell myself, when i get sad about how little i've done with my life so far...

    also refocusing your mindset. dont think about how interesting or uninteresting you might seem to the person you're talking to. think about how interesting THEY are!




  • yay! my cats love sticks too. may i suggest also gifting your cat a simple flat sheet? You can drape one across furniture so that it hangs down, with only an inch or two of open space on the bottom. in my experience cats love to play from underneath there, because they like being sneaky and ambushing. if you have sturdy furniture you can also tie the sheet between two of them, creating a low curtain wall, that they love to play in and jump over. just be careful about where you tie the curtain, make sure it wont tip the furniture over if they fall on it. you could just loosely drape stuff so it avoids that risk altogether



  • I started listening to a 10 hour radio show from 1991 about it. I didnt get far but I was aghast at what I heard...if you look at the subsections there are these "'A Full Court Press: The Destabilization of the Soviet Union' by Sean Gervasi" and then "On the role of the US far right in the dismantling of the Soviet Union: 'The Free Congress Foundation Goes East' by Russ Bellant and Louis Wolf". I searched for the Sean Gervasi person and found this which seems easier to disseminate than a radio show. I haven't been able to read it other than skimming but it seems good. I hope it helps even though it's a day late



  • anyone else devastated about Lolita/ Tokitae the captive orca whale dying recently? She spent 53 years in a tiny pool in Miami after being stolen from her mother in the PNW at age 4. People were actually trying to persuade her owner to let her come home, even for just one day, because guess what? Her family pod is still seen regularly by researchers, including her own mother... but no. it didn't happen. apparently the park she lived in didn't do anything to protect her from the recent heat domes in Florida either.






  • this makes my blood BOIL, holy shit.... im gonna once again think about all the years i've put 100% pfas directly into my eyes with soft contact lenses...I want to get some special screening for being exposed "more than the rest" but i think it's like several hundred dollars to do so. i've thrown them all away now. but wow these people must know what they deserve...

    it's so sad too to see how cosmetics enthusiasts on reddit are shocked by all this info, but so many of them say that ultimately they will continue to use toxic cosmetics even if it means they die sooner :(