I can see that angle. In and of itself, it's harmless joke and instances of female solidarity are always dope. That said, when she uses the qualifier "friend" it changes the context a lot. I clown on my boyz all the time; but when someone is hurting, that's probably not a great time to remind them of their supposed inferiority. I'm not saying you're sayin' that, of course, I'm just saying this joke changes a lot when one says that they're someone's friend. At least, it does for me.