Also is some really shitty “friend” behavior.

Right? Like putting aside that she's basically being the flipside girlboss white feminist version of MGTOW not recognizing that patriarchy hurts men also: she sounds like a fucking terrible friend to have.

Like seriously...haven't we all had a friend (man, woman, or they) who has called on us looking for comfort and in our head we thought: "yeah...you maybe kinda set yourself up for this." Except we don't say that thought out loud. At least not right then.

Right then we focus on supporting and validating their pain and their feelings because they're our fucking friend goddamn it! This isn't hard.