theytakemeawayfrom [he/him] to askchapo • edit-22 years agowhy is meeting people in real life so difficult?message-squaremessage-square84 fedilinkarrow-up189file-text
arrow-up189message-squarewhy is meeting people in real life so difficult?theytakemeawayfrom [he/him] to askchapo • edit-22 years agomessage-square84 Commentsfedilinkfile-text
it's relatively easy for me to meet people online, but there's only so much i can get out of virtual friendships anymore.
minus-squareSadStruggle92 [none/use name]hexbear2·2 years ago in order to have meaningful relationships with people But what if u don't tho? link
minus-squareusernamesaredifficul [he/him]hexbear1·2 years agoif you don't socialise with and form meaningful relationships with people then you will be lonely. it's difficult and it is a risk to put yourself out there but it also gets easier and not doing it isn't a long term plan link
minus-squareSadStruggle92 [none/use name]hexbear2·2 years ago if you don’t socialise with and form meaningful relationships with people then you will be lonely. I suppose my point is that I honestly believe that I simply can't, and never will be able to. link
minus-squareusernamesaredifficul [he/him]hexbear2·2 years agoyou might be putting to much pressure on yourself. socialising is a skill and it improves with practice. putting yourself out there continually makes people less uncomfortable putting themselves out there link
But what if u don't tho?
if you don't socialise with and form meaningful relationships with people then you will be lonely.
it's difficult and it is a risk to put yourself out there but it also gets easier and not doing it isn't a long term plan
I suppose my point is that I honestly believe that I simply can't, and never will be able to.
you might be putting to much pressure on yourself. socialising is a skill and it improves with practice.
putting yourself out there continually makes people less uncomfortable putting themselves out there