So I was thinking we could take the opportunity to maybe counter the negativity by talking about things we like about ourselves or good vibes about femininity in general. Just trying to bring some positivity. :comfy:
Would prefer to keep comments on the womenby side of the gender spectrum.
Personally, I noticed that I don't cringe as often when I look in the mirror anymore. So, that's a start! I feel like I'm trying harder at life now than I ever have, and it's making a neat little feedback loop where the results of working on myself gives me the energy to do more. Among things I'm working on is being able to empathize with people, including people who aren't like me. And I think getting to experience being someone different really helped me to internalize the humanity in others. So yeah...just doing my best.
Looking forward to seeing what people have to say!
I will say that in my experience, beginning to have sex in the new transfem fit after a certain point of hormones just kind of permanently flipped a switch that says "my body is sexy and hot". I'm not having sex regularly at the moment but I'm still capable of feeling like hot stuff when I look at parts of me that would have made me cringe four years ago
Also I have to say at a certain point it became addicting to be taller than most of the other women I was interested in so 🥵 6'6"
Lmao, I can imagine the "step on me" comments from people not posting on volcel sites.
We stan a community capable of keeping it in their pants