I will say that cis people tend to not spend too much time thinking about their gender as it’s hella affirmed for them every day by society.
I get this, but I've also thought a lot about my orientation at several stages in my life and always landed on "straight", so I'm not sure this applies to me personally. I'm prone to intrusive thoughts and fixation, so the fact that I think about something a lot doesn't really mean much.
This comment is bordering on a sermon though and I’m agnostic, so I guess the more important question here is: what makes you wonder whether you might be nonbinary?
I think the largest thing is seeing a picture or drawing of a cute girl with a comment under it saying "gender envy" and finding it relatable. At the same time, I don't mind the way I look (for the most part), I definitely prefer he/him pronouns, and I like being thought of as masculine to an extent.
I've played female characters in video games since I was a kid, and as I've gotten older I like dressing them in cute clothes. I occasionally talk to my sister about fashion and sometimes send her pictures of vg outfits I put together lol.
I think what really eats at me is a feeling that I'm missing out on half the human experience.
EDIT: I think the most import thing to me in terms of labeling is whether or not I'm part of the LGBT community, but because I don't really feel oppressed to excluded based on gender/sexuality it seems weird.
I get this, but I've also thought a lot about my orientation at several stages in my life and always landed on "straight", so I'm not sure this applies to me personally. I'm prone to intrusive thoughts and fixation, so the fact that I think about something a lot doesn't really mean much.
I think the largest thing is seeing a picture or drawing of a cute girl with a comment under it saying "gender envy" and finding it relatable. At the same time, I don't mind the way I look (for the most part), I definitely prefer he/him pronouns, and I like being thought of as masculine to an extent.
I've played female characters in video games since I was a kid, and as I've gotten older I like dressing them in cute clothes. I occasionally talk to my sister about fashion and sometimes send her pictures of vg outfits I put together lol.
I think what really eats at me is a feeling that I'm missing out on half the human experience.
EDIT: I think the most import thing to me in terms of labeling is whether or not I'm part of the LGBT community, but because I don't really feel oppressed to excluded based on gender/sexuality it seems weird.