I know that I made this as a comment the other day, but I know that this is worth discussing if it might help someone else.
As the title suggests, I think I'm :hexbear-bi-2:, and I think now is a good time for me to test that out. I am AMAB, and I know that I have some feelings I want to test out. Learning about Greek Mythology in sixth grade should have made me start asking questions right then and there, but I can't change the past. Now I am in my mid 20s. I have never even been kissed, let alone on a date, so this is all new territory for me too (thanks Autism Spectrum).
I want to know what apps might be best for someone who might want to go on a simulated date with a same-sex partner, and if a kiss comes out of the deal, that sounds nice. I am not comfortable with just casually fucking with someone, so grindr is out of the question. Apps give me the advantage of being clear right from the get-go that I just want to experiment, nothing too serious and so if I walk away and think I'm straight, everything is totally understandable.
I have been on a pseudo-date with a same-sex partner before, I don't know what came over me but I wanted to hang out with them but I was too much of a coward to ask them out any further, so it ended up being a dead end. No hurt feelings, but I want to experiment and have the partner knowing that coming in so I don't have to worry about my own fears of my own potential queerness ruining it.
I'm sorry if I should have left this as a comment, but this has been killing me.
Feeld has lots of poly queer people on it, and some of them would probably be happy to go on a date with you, just be very clear about what you want in chat. They still have a covid lockdown section, so if you wanted to have a video chat date, you you could look there rather than in your local area.