Thanks for your encouragement. Im only 19 right now and gender is fucking weird, I’m not sure if I’m a trans woman or what, but I’m certain that I’m definitely something that isn’t cis male and I think I want to start hrt as soon as possible and then see whether I want to continue or not.
I’m a complete mess of a person, and my dad’s really transphobic because he basically gets all of his opinions directly from British right wing news sources (he also gets vaguely antisemitic and racist against Italians when he drinks), I think his opinions are malleable enough that if it turns out that I am trans and I came out he’d probably come to accept me as a woman but I just can’t be sure and that’s so scary.
And also I have a genetic hair condition that means my hair is really short and straggly (not alopecia) and my sister also has it to a lesser degree and she always gets mistaken for a boy and I don’t know if I could take that.
I’m sorry for dumping this on you in the comments I should probably write it somewhere else instead but I just need to get it off my chest
its cool :cat-trans: i cant give any "good" advice and i dont even know if you'd want any, but like other comrades have said waiting leads to nothing good. ill carry the visible scars for the rest of my life
https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/ this may be helpful
Thanks for your encouragement. Im only 19 right now and gender is fucking weird, I’m not sure if I’m a trans woman or what, but I’m certain that I’m definitely something that isn’t cis male and I think I want to start hrt as soon as possible and then see whether I want to continue or not.
I’m a complete mess of a person, and my dad’s really transphobic because he basically gets all of his opinions directly from British right wing news sources (he also gets vaguely antisemitic and racist against Italians when he drinks), I think his opinions are malleable enough that if it turns out that I am trans and I came out he’d probably come to accept me as a woman but I just can’t be sure and that’s so scary.
And also I have a genetic hair condition that means my hair is really short and straggly (not alopecia) and my sister also has it to a lesser degree and she always gets mistaken for a boy and I don’t know if I could take that.
I’m sorry for dumping this on you in the comments I should probably write it somewhere else instead but I just need to get it off my chest
its cool :cat-trans: i cant give any "good" advice and i dont even know if you'd want any, but like other comrades have said waiting leads to nothing good. ill carry the visible scars for the rest of my life
https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/ this may be helpful