There’s one for games where you have a first person perspective with all your party members represented by little boxes and it’s turn based but I can’t remember it.

Isn't that just a dungeon crawler RPG like Legend of Grimrock?

I'd agree that at this point I associate JRPG more with the style of gameplay than the origin since most JRPGs I play are made outside of Japan these days since RPG Maker is such an accessible engine to create games as a solo dev.