I've been thinking about this lately, what's y'alls' takes on this. Lets talk.

I'm also curious if there is some link between being neurodivergent af and all this, so I'm curious what y'all identify as that you think might have influenced how you view love.

  • GrouchyGrouse [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    Platonic love is what I feel for my closest friends. I want to hang out with them, eat together, share time.

    Romantic love is wanting them to be the first and last person I talk to every day. Waking up together. Eating off each other's plates. Not needing to say a word when you look in their eyes. Feeling elevated just being around them. It's tougher to put into words because it's a lot of feelings. It's also friendship but it hurts more when it ends than ending a platonic friendship.

    • gaycomputeruser [she/her]
      hexagon
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      2 years ago

      May I ask what labels you identify with? I'm curious if it may be specific features of myself that differentiate.

      • GrouchyGrouse [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        Sure, can you define "labels" for me? I want to answer the question correctly

        • gaycomputeruser [she/her]
          hexagon
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          2 years ago

          Queer, neurodivergent, disability identities? Anything in that vein where you can sorta put a name on it. Ie, I'm an autistic lesbian.