I wouldn’t listen to Reddit. Most of Reddit is insecure young people.

thats the reddit response to every thing relationship related. i feel like its its liteeally always "holy shit girl/dude, stop talking to them/break up with/divorce them right this fucking second" theyre just incredibly useless for any kind of marriage/dating/relationship

I mean knowing reddit's political opinions I'm not surprised at their complete lack of ability to view things from his side

I do agree with the other comments here though that it is definitely still his responsible to communicate properly with you and that no matter what his reasons may be, the relationship can't really continue without him pushing it forward with you