Don't Be An Asshole vs Don't Be A Pussy thesis

"We're gonna have kids in cages on the border but you don't have to be an asshole about it!"

"We're gonna have kids in cages on the border but don't be a pussy about it!"

"We're gonna ship weapons to Israel to bomb Gazan children but we don't wanna be an asshole about it!"

"We're gonna ship weapons to Israel to bomb Gazan children but we aren't gonna be pussies about it!"

This is the extent of the "acceptable "American political landscape