• FIST_FILLET@lemmy.ml
    ·
    1 month ago

    there is no way in all of hell that 14k right swipes led to 14 matches unless the person’s bio literally says they are a sex offender or something insane like that

    • Asafum@feddit.nl
      ·
      1 month ago

      I've been on dating sites for over 10 years now. The most "likes" I've ever had was 17.

      Not even matching. That number is like 6 over 10 years...

      I'm quite literally an absolute joke of a human though. I'm the exact person people joke about as being the worst kind of person: I'm a (guy) homebody who likes to smoke, play videogames, and garden. I'm fit but not muscular, short, balding, and not a fan of dogs or travel (way too expensive). I'm literally worse than Hitler to almost all women.

      Unfortunately the only people who have ever swiped on me except for those 6 I mentioned look like honey booboos mom, have kids, and dogs.

      • FIST_FILLET@lemmy.ml
        ·
        edit-2
        1 month ago

        nah bro you’ll find your soulmate ❤️ you just gotta find the style that works for you to compliment the stuff you can’t change. anyone can be a 7/10, the rest is luck. and this is not even taking into account the fact that a fuckload of people value your personality much higher than cosmetic stuff