There's a queer night club I found about 40 minutes away from me by train, I have nobody to go out with so i'm planning on going by myself next Friday. I'm nervous because I haven't gone to a club in a while and at the same time i'm going to be alone. Ideally I would want to meet some people within the first hour I guess but i'm just worried it's not going to happen and people will think i'm weird for being alone, I also don't know where I would stand or do anything. I have no idea what i'm doing lol
You can always chat with the bartenders first. They tend to be nice as long as they aren't absolutely slammed and might know some regulars who they could get you in with.
Once you're feeling comfortable just migrate to the dance floor and start talking to people. If you get uncomfortable you can always just go back to standing at the bar or leave.
Aren’t bartenders really busy, it’s too loud at a club / bar
Depends, the one I always go to actually has 2 bars. One by the floor and another tucked around the corner that's quieter for people to go relax. My first move wherever I go somewhere new is to talk to the bartender.
If it's too loud, just hang out there and look for other people that seem to be alone